Stepping Away from Openings
There is so much going on. I need to balance. Maybe I have to step away from Openings?
Good Reasons To
It is important to maintain ourselves through all that is going on in our world now. That means having a good relationship with time, managing our emotions, calming our minds and staying healthy. We also are dealing with an underlying energy of chaos, change and disruption in the world. Occurrences in our world affect us. They can spike our emotions and take our energy. It is a lot to juggle.
Openings present opportunities to change, which we may or may not welcome at the time they appear. Addressing Openings takes time. We first must recognize them and then decide whether to enter them. They give us a lot to assess and think about. We may feel this is the last thing we need, as we try to balance ourselves.
Openings do not stop coming and we should be glad for that. Life’s journey continues. This stretch of the journey, however, is rocky. We are having to be at our best, hone our energy and skills and maintain ourselves. At the same time, Openings move us, provide insights and, mostly, make our lives better. What if we stepped away completely or Openings stopped showing up? How would life be?
Should We Step Away?
This is something worth assessing in order to keep ourselves conscious and in the present moment. If our lives are overloaded and stressed, we must let go of something. Indigenous wisdom often addresses the power of release in order for new things to come into our lives. What is possible to let go of in our lives right now? What is no longer serving us?
Openings serve us. If we let go of them, a major force in our growth is gone. Openings won’t stop coming. We will be expending a lot of energy trying to ignore them, saying no or pushing them away. It ends up confusing us, draining our energy and taking more from us than if we were addressing them. Stepping away from Openings leaves us in the world as it is now. Don’t we want something better?
Once I was advised that, in the past, we could step out of the river of life that is flowing very quickly. It may have been too much and we needed a rest. However, if we step out of the river now, we may not recognize it when we return. Key is to remain in the river, find our center and flow with it. In the right spot, flowing with it could become effortless as it carries us.
Are you considering stepping away from your river or hugging the shore? Let’s talk about it.
FINESSING
How do we find our way to and through Openings as we deal with profound change and disruption? We find a new center within it all. It’s not a small task. The energy around us is challenging. Old ways do not work anymore. We are facing the unknown and collapsing foundations. A new center is elusive and not known to us until we find it. We can set our intention and commitment to find a new center and that will get us started.
What do imaginal cells, that eventually become the butterfly, do in the cocoon as the caterpillar dies and they have not formed yet? They build their strength and fight off the caterpillar cell attacks. They too are in the unknown and have no idea that they will form the butterfly. The present moment is all they have. And all that we have. How do we want to grow and live our lives in the current circumstances?
Do we want to welcome Openings? They will show us the way. To do so, we need to make time for them, muster our courage and set our commitment. We make them a part of our lives and see them as guides to a new center. They will not let us down. In the process of welcoming and entering Openings we will become stronger and that new center will appear.
MAKING IT THROUGH THIS TIME
Being together is so vital now. We need kindred spirits and the support of others. We need people around us who support our journeys and that quicken us. It is not a time for personal dramas, but rather for the building of a new existence, acceptance of what is ending and commitment to a new beginning that serves us all.
I don’t think I want to step away from Openings. They could be great allies during this time.
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