Deep Openings
It seems like forever since I entered this Opening.
The Nature of Change
Change is change. It does not have just one shape. It comes as it wants to – lightly, brightly, darkly, deeply. Some changes are self-generated and others come upon us without our initial participation or intent. Openings often bring change – the kind that comes upon us and the kind we intend and identify when an Opening appears. Change is inherent in Openings.
In Openings, we are moving from one state of being or situation to another. Change involves transition and brings both opportunity and challenge. Some change we can resist; other change is thrust upon us. Whether surprised or welcoming as an Opening appears, we are invited to move. Staying still may seem like an option. It is not. Once the Opening appears, even if we say no to it, we are changed by its appearance alone.
Change itself is accelerating in our world today. We are redefining systems, models and ways of being. We are facing threats and promises for the future of our world. Our world is transforming. Within this change, we are living our individual lives. Openings are helping us grow and learn, bringing us to our best selves, if we embrace them. We have to face our individual Openings in a wider environment that is changing too.
Deep Openings
What are Deep Openings? They are Openings that take some time and strength to navigate. They bring us quite a distance from our ordinary life. They need our intention and focus in a big way. They are characterized by their duration, taking us deeply within, the presence of the unknown and the lack of a visible endpoint. This is their power. They help us create profound change.
What does it mean to go deeply? It often means rethinking our lives and listening to our hearts. It requires deep examination and identification of what is working and what needs to be released. It means growth. It often involves developing the skills needed to navigate the unknown – finding our way on a path that is not clear. It means pulling away from everyday life into a place that is just for us.
Deep Openings can involve loss – accepting and acclimating to it. Deep Openings can involve profound, uninvited change sending us reeling. Deep Openings can be self-initiated; however no less intense because of this. Deep Openings can involve a radical self-acceptance that may brush against the norms of society. Deep Openings can stop us in our tracks and ask for a completely new direction.
➟ Have you experienced a Deep Opening recently or in the past? Do you want to make sense of it? Coaching can help you.
Surviving Deep Openings
Here are some thoughts on ways to survive Deep Openings:
- Come to a place of acceptance that change is part of life. Explore the nature of change. Develop a support system.
- Look at a Deep Opening as an invitation to create the life we want to live.
- Look at change as an alchemy, transforming us in profound ways, adding and subtracting elements of our lives, inviting us to know ourselves better and offering welcome and exciting possibilities.
- Look at life as a journey. A time to learn and grow, where staying still gets us nowhere.
- Embrace a, Deep Opening once we choose to enter it.
- Get as comfortable as we can with the unknown. See its possibilities and potential, as well as its challenges.
- Quiet and love ourselves, so that the duration and solitude of Deep Openings can be known and endured.
- Read and associate with like-minded people who embrace Deep Openings – for support and to learn and grow with them.
- Ponder Deep Openings. See their nature, challenges and gifts.
- Realize that a life without Deep Openings can be static and unfulfilling.
Making the Most of Deep Openings
Make room for Deep Openings and value them. By embracing Deep Openings, life takes on a richness and is where it is meant to be. Deep Openings are not a constant presence in our lives. They often come infrequently but when they do, they make their presence known. Enjoy other Openings that stay on the surface too and allow them to strengthen you for the Deep Openings to come.
This is a Deep Opening. I’ll get to know it. I’ll surrender in a way, to the gifts it is bringing to me.
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